How to Get Rid of Alcoholism
Alcoholism
In most head-on automobile collisions where people are seriously injured or killed, it turns out that the driver at fault has a higher-than-allowed blood alcohol level; that is, he or she was driving a lethal weapon while intoxicated. Statistics from the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism show that in 2004, lightly less than 40 percent of all traffic fatalities (not just those that resulted from head-on collisions) involved alcohol. This figure is down from 60 percent in 1982, possibly reflecting the effect of seat belts or decreased societal tolerance for drunk driving. Perhaps the message, “Don’t drink and drive,” is finally getting through. But 40 percent is still too high a figure.
Alcohol has also been, historically, an important factor in domestic arguments that end in homicide. In the state of Oklahoma, about half of all victims of homicide have high blood alcohol levels, and it could easily be assumed that most of their killers were also drunk. Between 5% and 50% of all suicides, depending upon the age level looked at, were people with elevated blood alcohol levels.
A drunk is a danger to far more people than himself, including the people he doesn’t kill but seriously damages, whether physically or emotionally. Typical victims are his family (and we use the pronouns “he” and “his” advisedly; two-thirds of all alcoholics are male). A high proportion of child-batterers and wife-beaters are alcohol abusers or alcoholics. Somehow, the alcoholic must be made to control his drinking before he does his damage. If any drinker is unable to control his consumption, he must stop it completely.

But how?
The drunk must want to get rid of his habit.
Even though quitting destructive habits is often hard to do, and one of the hardest to get rid of is the craving for liquor, many alcoholics are crying out for someone to stop them. They may be drunk, but they have lucid moments when they know what demon rum is doing to them.
There are various tools to help the drinker quit, but he must first be motivated to want to quit. Others may appeal to him to stop, and the appeals might work, but they work only if he realizes what he stands to lose if he doesn’t quit the sauce and what he stands to gain if he does.
Why is this a difficult habit to break? What causes the habit to begin with? We’re not sure.
When Is a Drunk a Drunk?
One can be considered inebriated if his blood alcohol level exceeds a certain set level. For purposes of testing whether one is sober enough to drive a motor vehicle, each state has set a level beyond which it defines a driver as being drunk, and these vary from state-to-state. Because most people do not carry breathalyzers on them or have blood alcohol test kits in their medicine chests at home, there needs to be an easier way to determine whether they’re drunk. And there is: your speech tends to slur, your balance is off – it’s difficult to walk a straight line, at first you’re happy but – with a few more drinks – you start to get obnoxious, and at some point your sober friends will probably tell you you’re drunk. Get drunk often enough, and they might begin calling you an alcohol abuser, though probably not to your face.
It’s beginning to look like genetics has a lot to do with the drinking habit; having alcoholic biological parents increases your risk of becoming one, too. But other factors play a part:
The Causes are Myriad
- Social influences of family, friends, co-workers, and society
- The availability of alcohol
- An imbalance of brain chemicals, producing a greater predisposition to alcoholism
- Elevated levels of stress, anxiety, depression, or emotional pain
- Low self esteem
- Falling prey to the idea of there being “glamour” in drinking
- Poor coping mechanisms
- The encouragement of other alcohol abusers
- Physical changes to the brain caused by drinking. Alcohol alters the balance of some pleasure-producing chemicals in the brain that affect behavior. Over the long term, it takes more and more alcohol to produce these same results.
Between 10 and 20 percent of alcohol-consuming individuals are considered alcoholics. More are considered alcohol abusers and, yes, there is a difference. According to the Penn State University Milton S. Hershey Health Sciences Center, alcohol abusers regularly drink to the point that their judgment is impaired, resulting in recurring problems in daily life. Done long enough, the abuse turns into alcoholism. Thus, an alcoholic is an abuser who develops a craving and becomes addicted to liquor.
Chronic alcoholism leads to death by diseases, conditions, and actions too numerous to list in this short article. (You can find them listed in the article by Dr. Thompson listed in the Resources section below.)
The Three Stages of Kicking the Habit
Treatment for alcoholism is a lifelong process that requires medical treatment, psychological services, behavior therapy, and a strong support system. If possible, treatment programs should have family participation. Treatment proceeds in stages:
1. Detoxification:
The first stage is detoxification, ridding the body of the toxic effects of alcohol. The experience is similar to drug withdrawal, and can be just as painful. Severe withdrawal is treated in a hospital setting with sedatives being administered and fluids given intravenously to replace those lost through vomiting. Lost minerals are added to the drip.
2. Medical Treatment
Drugs are administered. Naltrexon curbs the craving for alcohol, disulfiram creates unpleasant effects when alcohol is consumed, and a drug which has just been approved for use in the United States, acamprosate calcium, may be prescribed. Acamprosate calcium has been used in Europe for 15 years to ease the withdrawal pains of going on the wagon.
Behavior therapy is another treatment modality used for alcoholics, but it is also applied with alcohol abusers to move them away from their bad habit.
Ondansetron, a drug used to counter the nausea caused by chemotherapy, is now being tested at the University of Texas Medical Center in San Antonio for its possible use in reducing the craving for alcohol. UT researchers are also looking into topiramate, used for many years as an anti-seizure medication, reporting that heavy drinkers are six times more likely to “stay clean and sober” for a month on even small doses of the medication.
3. Rehabilitation:
Physical and mental health both get massaged in rehab, and peer support comes through such programs as Alcoholics Anonymous. AA, as do many physicians, insist that total abstinence from alcohol is the only way to beat the habit.
Rehab is a slow and tedious way out of the alcohol swamp, which is why something called Rapid Opiate Detoxification (ROD) has gained a foothold in the treatment of alcoholism over the past ten years. The best known of these programs puts the alcoholic under general anesthesia for anywhere from 6 to 48 hours. During that time, drugs are administered which cleanse the body of opiates, and the patient supposedly wakes up feeling well and having no memory of the experience.
A number of patients have died during this procedure, however, and its effectiveness, as well as safety, is being called into question. It’s thought that the process puts the body under severe stress and strain, and those who do come through have a high chance of slipping back into alcoholism within six months.
Resources:
- Health-Cares.net, “What Causes Alcoholism?“
- Warren Thompson M.D., “Alcoholism,” eMedicine from WebMD
- There is a great deal of dissention over the proper way to deal with alcoholism, many contending that the “disease” model (which is what this article has detailed) does not apply to the problem. For one dissenting view, read “Independent Research on Alcoholism and Drug Addiction,” published by the Baldwin Research Institute,
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I was in and out of treatment centers for years…I couldn’t stay drunk and I couldn’t stay sober. I was very, very sick and had been in and out of AA for years. I was totally miserable and just knew I would die drunk. I had prayed about it for years and my family prayed for years.
Then one day…
I was outside and I looked into the sky and said, “God, please remove the desire for alcohol from me…you know I don’t mean it but do it anyway.” That was 20 years ago and I haven’t even been tempted since that day. I was living with an alcoholic at the time who kept alcohol
in our kitchen all the time. I tell you that since that day I have not had a drink of anything alcoholic and have not been at all tempted.
I do wish you great success in your quest for a sober life…I wouldn’t go back to it for anything. Do whatever it takes!
Truth is you have to have the will to quit. Unless you want to
really quit no
meetings or rehab will work.
I am a recovering
acoholic. What got me was the fact i wanted to be the mom my 5 year old deserves. Look at your life and i am sure you can find an inspiration, just anything that would be more important to you. I just woke up one day and i relized not only was it myself i was cheating but everyone who loved me and that i loved.
I signed into an inpatient program that day.
drunk words are sober thoughts.. a drinking man hits bottom before he realizes his drinking is a problem..he isn’t much fun now that YOU stopped drinking…he’ll drink another just to fit in in.. he had a bad day he sayd not i want a beer- BUT I NEED A BEER…he mentions he’d wants slow donw on his drinking by switching from beer to LIQUOR- big red flag there..empty beers bottles around the house- spells TROUBLE.. your room mates threaten to move out because he’s drinking and they are afraid of him.. he totally loses his temper you hold your tongue until the next day to prevent his temper from flairing up anyone more.. you can’t fight with a drunk- the drunk is always right- IN THEIR MIND..
just keep trying you will get success don’t give up the fight every thing is possible.
i think when you have an adiiction to acohol its hard to stop!
It’s been said, but it needs to be said again. No one stops until they hit their on bottom. The sad thing is what some people consider a bottom doesn’t resemble much like living,More like existing.
How do you know when you have hit a bottom? When you stop digging!
I strongly suggest Alcoholics Anonymous to anyone that has an honest desire to quit and for anyone suffering through the pains of a relationship with an Alcoholic I suggest Alanon.
Be blessed.
Lauren~Dear lady you are not alone. alcohol is a problem everywhere.
You may have to leave this person and think about your and your children’s safety. I know you love this person but he needs help. Seek the advice of a counselor or social sevices. Alcohol can affect everyone especially close loved ones, you do not deserve this and the future of your kids. The alcoholic will lie, steal, cheat and do whatever it takes to get a drink. He may even bring home a unwanted STD to you one day if he does not get help through counseling, rehab and or AA. You can type in “alcohol or alcoholism” on the internet and there’s a great wealth of sites that you can go to to get ideas or seek advice. I could say awhole lot more, but… The thing that I really have found that really helps is to start going to church and call upon the LORD (prayer)to help and guide you, plus you can get to know some loving and caring church members who really care. I hope that I’ve been of some help.I’ll be praying for you, dear…
I really have no tips, all I know is that I am with you all.My a has been gone over 2and a half months, didnt bother to call till the 2mo mark, for his things. How in the world do you just quit loving someone that doesnt even love themself. Its painful to be with out the good side of him, but also, I am not paranoid anymore, no more smelling the breath of a drunk asleep. All I can do that I am sure of Is pray to God for him to deliver him from this **** he is living.
A relationship based on your helping or healing or “Fixing” someone, will not work. Believe me, I have spent (wasted) 13 years with an alcoholic and he is as bad today as he ever was. Until & unless he finds his own way, and decides to have a better life, he will drink, get drunk, and wreak havoc in the lives all around him. Don’t waste your life trying to fix someone who you think is “broken”, you will break yourself in the process. ALL you can do is to remove yourself to a safe and quiet, serene, peaceful place where that person cannot any longer reach you to call you for “help” when he is falling down in the street, because by being there you are an ENABLER. Take it from one of the world’s biggest enablers, in the end you’ll have nothing and you’ll be the fool. Sorry but that’s reality.
although i dont have any tips of how to stop drinking, i am trying to help someone but i cannot because he does not want to quit himself.
i’m with my guy for about 6 years now. im nine months pregnant and have a 4 year old son by him currently.
for the past 6 months he has been working for this company that has nothing but drinkers there. which i belive thats the reason why he has his problem.
i cry and beg him to stop coming home leggless. my son and my little brother watch him come in the door, stumbling, falling down the stairs, passing out on the kitchen table and the couch. he was drunk one night again, and was crying to me telling me that he has a drinking problem (which i already knew). i told him that i would help him. he didnt want my help the next day.
i try to kick him out, but i dont want to turn my back on him. but he is really getting me angry now. i cant stand the sight or smell of beer because of him anymore. everyday when he leaves for work i tell him not to come home drunk, he listens to me sometimes…but he still drinks to much. he prob comes home 2-3 times out of the week drunk.
i am now overdue 1 week on my pregnancy and will be delivering anyday now. i keep telling him that he is not coming to the hospital with me if he is drunk. he agrees that he will not drink because he wants to see his son being born……….he called me tonight asking me if he could have 1 beer thats it then come home….he knew i didnt want him to, so an hour ago, he came home drunk and is currently passed out on the couch. he doesnt care that he is hurting me. i try to talk to him about it all, but he tells me to “get over myself” that i am a “b***h” and always in a “bad mood”. he doesnt want to listen to how im feeling and how he is hurting me and how his son and my family is seeing him. i dont know what to do!! i want him to quit his job and then he wont be around his drinking buddies. but we need money (which he doesnt even bring home anymore; and i dont know why) and i dont want him to just run away from his problem. because if he encounters people like that again, he will just drink again like he is doing now.
my question is ……..what do i do? how can i have him back without ruining my family? how can i get him to stop if he isnt willing??
someone help me please.