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How to Get Rid of a Stutter
People who stutter have a difficult time stating words and phrases. Their speech flow is often disrupted by repeated or prolonged syllables, sudden pauses, and a temporary loss of words. The disruptions provided by stuttering are not controlled nor anticipated. In some cases, the stutterer has already constructed statements in his head but those statements do not cleanly come out as words. The stutterer then focuses on speaking the right words, which leads him to lose his flow of thoughts as well.
Surprisingly, stuttering is more of a psychological problem than a real speech defect. There is nothing wrong with the stutterer's vocal organs nor his ability to construct words. The stutter is actually a byproduct of a stutterer's fears, stress, anxiety and lack of self-confidence. Clearly, stuttering can only be treated once the stutterer's negative state of mind is altered.
There are many treatments for stuttering. From clinical therapies to self-empowerment methods, the results of each treatment may vary depending on the stutterer's preferences and state of mind. You can try a certain treatment for a week and if you see no progress, you can switch treatments.
Confidence Builders
The lack of self confidence is one of the root causes for stuttering. Oftentimes, the stutterer already feels disempowered before he begins to stutter. If he is able to increase his confidence level, he will feel at ease whenever he communicates orally, which will eventually cure stuttering.
Here are some methods that may help increases the self-confidence of the stutterer:
- Speech Classes – Attending speech classes are just like hitting two birds with one stone. First, a speech class builds self-confidence as it teaches the stutterer how to effectively communicate infront of a crowd. The stutterer will then improve on his oral communication skills before the speech classes end. Of course, the stutterer will feel intimidated at first, which will cause him to stutter during the initial sessions. Gradually, the stutterer will gain confidence as his comfort level grows through each session. He may even end up being a better speaker than most people at the end of his speech classes.
- Engage in Sports – Sports develop confidence in its participants and promotes the betterment of interpersonal skills. Trainers nurture the spirit of competitiveness, which is held by a good amount of self-confidence. The participants asre taught to be driven to better themselves in their sport of choice. You can enroll the stutterer in a sports training program and watch him develop the confidence of a champion athlete. Soon, he will trade his speech impediment for several game-winning shots and a championship trophy.
- Self Empowerment Books – Famous novels may contain gripping storylines but the best stories are usually reserved for self empowerment books. These books are laced with true stories and theories on how to live a happy life. A stutterer will learn a thing or two on how to deal with their issues and gain self-confidence in the process. Some books also provide real situations as examples, which a stutterer can easily relate to. When the stutterer applies the theories he has read, he can then walk through each stage of life gracefully minus the stutter.
- Passion – Every person is passionate about something. Regardless of speech impediments, all individuals yearn to be good at a particular activity, practice or profession. The stutterer can indulge in his passions, where he will probably succeed. If a person engages in something that he truly loves, he will do anything to better himself at that endeavor. Incidentally, a good amount self-confidence is one of the main remedies for stuttering.
Anxiety lords over stutterers. A stutterer is often anxious about certain issues or how he perceives himself, given his condition. Usually, he ends up being too preoccupied with his issues as he derails his speech in the process. If we weed out the causes of the stutterer's anxiety, he will then recover his speech flow and a handful of self respect. Good thing there are several good ways to combat anxiety.
- Consult a Psychiatrist – With years of experience tucked under their belts, seasoned psychiatrists have probably remedied all types of emotional and psychological problems. They can surely pinpoint the root causes of a stutterer's issues. Once the issues have been determined, psychiatrists will know exactly how to deal with those problems. They can give stutterers expert advice, scientific procedures on how to beat anxiety, and supplementary medication, if necessary. Some psychiatrists will even inspire stutterers to gain enough self-confidence so they can throw away their anxiety and ultimately, their speech impediment.
- Hang Out with the Right People – Some of the basic tenets of friendship is support and interpersonal growth. Real friends see to it that everyone in the group respects each other's individuality and is able to resolve his problems. If a stutterer finds a social group that bears these characteristics, chances are his speech impediment will fade. He will find utmost respect and guidance in a good group of friends. In the end, he will lose the speech impediment .
- Read the Two Sides of Every Story – All situations have a good and a “not-as-good” side. For instance, you are mugged at dark alley and you eventually lose your fancy mobile phone to the "bad guy." The bad side of that story is pretty obvious. As for the good side, through this experience, you learn to safely secure your belongings. If a stutterer applies this line of balanced thinking, there is no way that anxiety will get the best of him.
Stuttering may seem serious but it is just a byproduct of a negative state of mind. If you possess a positive outlook on life and see yourself as a great individual, you will feel inner peace. With that in mind, you can conquer your fears, insecurities and your stuttering. You will soon realize that losing your speech impediment is just a bonus for the benefits that you will reap right after.
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I have no tip but I am 20 years old and have no problem with confidence, I work as an Estate Agent and have a beautiful girl friend and lovely friends and family. But for some reason I can stop stuttering I could go days or even weeks without it but some days its mad just no stop dont understand why. Some days when im really tired or u dont feel as confident then yer it come out but most days im fine its a really weird feeling but oh well if people say anything screw them who cares what someone else thinks about how you speak as long you are happy with yourself then be cool guys and girls
goodluck
I am an undergraduate of some college in nigeria,
i began to stutter early in my teen years,although i never stuttered while growing up.
So i guess the stutter was caused because of a very low self esteem.
I was in a lift with my teacher the other day and we were talking about my work and I began to stutter (probably because I was nervous about the work). Then my teacher stopped me mid sentence and said ‘Are you dyslexic’. Considering that I have no difficulty spelling words on paper or orally I’m pretty sure that was based on the stutter. And well…let’s just say that it didn’t help with my nerves. So I’m pretty sure that’s my problem.
I’m 15 and I stutter, I have tourrettes syndrome aswell. I can say one thing about this, you can deal with it, I get made fun off sometimes because of it but that just makes me a stronger person, it’s now leaving me cuz of self empowerment, one day I said to myself the man and tell the world that this my house, and with the love and support of family and friends I’ve gone on to be captain of the sydney comets basketball team, I’ve led the team to 2 state championships and taken them to the national championship game in Melbourne, but I’m sure watever life threatening disease u guys must be dying of is big enough to make you give up on life, btw did I that I’ve appeared in morning talk shows, school assemblys and tv programs talking about how you can do anything you set ur mind to, my motto is for every dark night there’s a bright day after that so keep your head up, and believe to achieve, just look at me
It doesn’t matter for me in the end of the day. Im living with my girlfriend, who constantly makes fun of my stutter. Any advice for me in this situation??
Stutterring has made my life no less dan hell..m a BBA 1ST SEMESTER STDNT.I WNT 2 XPRESS MY FEELINGS,THOUGHTS BT I CNT..IT HAS MADE ME INTROVERT..I FEEL LIKE KILLING MYSELF..SUICIDE IS D NLY SOLUTION!!EVR1 SPEAKS FLUENTY, WHY NLY ME MAN?
Im 25 and spent most of the last 10 years of my life trying to ged rid of it. as one of the above comments has mentioned, people tell me to slow down or think before i talk. That dosent help. I cant socialize properly as talking to new people is almost a phobia. Its not bad speaking infront of my friends and family but even then i feel like a idiot, it just wont go away.
I still stutter at 28, even with family and about stuff I have a deep understanding of. I also suffer from a loss of words, despite having a relatively large vocabulary. I have no problem with small talk, but with any kind of extended monologue I tend to fumble with words. I even have trouble reading out loud. It’s more like I lack the ability to prepare more than half a dozen words far ahead. People often tell me to slow down or think before I speak, but that kind of advice doesn’t work for me.
Interesting testimonies: yes, it is true that people who stutter have brains that are wired a bit differently. I had a stutter as a child and joined a choir; that helped me. I beleive that stutters should avoid courses that involve reading outloud, especially in another language.
I had a severe speech impediment when I was younger. It made life pretty much hell as an adolescent. I went to a state college for assistance when I was about 40 years old. I got assigned to a graduate student in speech therapy which really helped. Lisa was the department head and she watched over my progress. So try your local state college or university for help in the speech therapy department. When I was in college I wish my advisor would of assigned more speech classes for me. Perhaps I should of insisted on this myself. Later in my career I got some relief by walking on the tread mill and repeating my name and job title and home location as an introduction orally. We usually had to introduce outselves at each meeting and this had made me extremely uncomfortable. The treadmill duplicated the stress level created during my introduction of myself. I think this could be of massive help to some people. I know I really got help this way. Someone should do some research on this in their spare time (hah). Jim