After admiring your ultimate crush from a distance, you've successfully asked your dream girl out on a date. You're as giddy as a kid on Christmas Day and you want to make sure everything goes perfectly. You've planned your outfit, reserved the venue and you've even polished your car. There's only one thing you dread: the part where you kiss her goodnight. Most guys don't stress about this, but for you, it's something to be worried about because it's your first time to kiss a girl.

It's very common for boys and even girls to experience nervousness during a first kiss. Smooching after all, isn't that easy, especially if you're trying to impress the other person. Some are overcome by fear and they end up kissing badly. The result? You gross out your partner and say goodbye to the prospect of a second date.

Don't stress yourself out when it comes to your first kiss. There are ways on how you can make your nervousness go away, and make the kiss enjoyable and unforgettable.

How's Your Mouth?

Before you start prepping yourself mentally, you must first prepare yourself physically --- no, not just the clothes or the perfume, but also your mouth. It's only common sense for anyone to practice proper hygiene during a date, but this time it's crucial. Besides, it's a way of showing your respect for the other person.

Brush your teeth, gargle and floss. If you're going to dinner, don't order something that can make your breath stink, like pizza or burritos. Stay away from foods that have garlic, so your date won't gag while you're kissing her. As an extra precaution, you should also carry some mint gum or breath spray, and use it after you eat or smoke (if you're a smoker), so your breath will always smell fresh and good.

One extra tip: Put on some lip balm if your lips are too dry. It'll make them nice and kissable. Girls like that.

Be Comfortable

Whether you're anticipating a kiss or not, it's a must for any guy to make a girl feel comfortable during a date. Although there may be awkward moments and lengthy silences, you should always know how to step forward and entertain your partner, so when the perfect moment comes and you go in for a kiss, both of you won't feel nervous.

The best way to maintain a comfortable atmosphere during the date is to keep the conversation light and positive. Get her to laugh as much as you can and talk about things she's interested in. Flatter her, but don't overdo it.

Be careful about things you talk about. Sometimes you become so flustered that you say embarrassing things at the wrong time. The trick is to remain silent every now and then. No, it doesn't mean you have to be a statue. You just have to filter the information you give out and stop being a chatterbox. It'll make you look more mysterious --- a trait many girls find enticing.

There are also taboo topics you should avoid talking about, like:

• Talks of sex
• Commenting on her body parts (like her breasts or butt)
• Badmouthing your ex-girlfriends or asking about ex-boyfriends
• Obnoxious people
• Creepy behaviors and mannerisms

Learn How To Kiss

One reason why many guys are so afraid of their first kiss is that they don't know how to kiss properly. They end up embarrassed because the girl didn't feel any "connection" or intimacy during the kiss. They are then labeled as bad kissers.

Here's one thing you should remember before you pucker up --- kissing is not just about moving your mouth and lips up and down. It's not just about putting your tongue in your partner's mouth. You should master the proper techniques on how to kiss a girl for the first time. You shouldn't just grab and smooch. You both have to savor the moment.

Here are several “kissing etiquette” tips you should keep in mind.

• Keep your eyes shut most of the time. For a woman, nothing is creepier than a guy who kisses with his eyes open. You can open them every now and then, but not too much. Besides, closing your eyes helps avoid visual distractions.
• Your head should be properly positioned. Lean your head to one side of her face a bit, so your noses won't bump against each other. You can change the angle by moving it to the other side.
• Avoid moaning and groaning sounds. Not only are they distracting, they can also give the wrong message to your date. She'll think you're just another horny bastard. Smacking or “mmmm” sounds are acceptable, but minimize them.
• Avoid tongue action. Unless the girl wants to, try not to force your tongue in her mouth. If she's ready for it, use your tongue, but in a gentle and affectionate manner.
• Mind your hands. Use them gently, and place them in spots like the back, waist or shoulder. You can also lovingly touch her cheek or stroke her hair every now and then. Never let them wander against impermissible territory or you'll end up with a slap on the face.
• Know when to stop. Don't go too far or stray too much. When it's right, break the kiss. Then hug her or squeeze her hand.

Remember these kissing pointers. Not only will you get rid of that nervousness, you'll also make her knees buckle!

Do It Somewhere Private

When going for your first kiss, make sure you do it in a quiet, private place, away from the eyes of other people. Don't kiss her in places like concerts, movie houses, restaurants, clubs or discos. You should be alone with her. It's not only romantic and more intimate, but it also takes away distractions, like vibrations, noises, music and other human presence --- factors that can affect your performance. Being in a crowded place also makes the special moment go by quicker. Chances are, you won't even feel it.

A quiet garden, the beach or an empty park walkway are examples of great places where you can kiss her. You can also kiss her at her doorstep when you take her home. Just make sure her dad isn't watching!

Fools Rush In

Remember the intense kissing scenes you see in movies, right before they do the deed? Your first kiss should be nothing like that. While intense and passionate smooching can be exciting, it's not proper to engage in a heated exchange of kissing at this time. Most guys, especially those who become too nervous, tend to rush their kissing partners. They either turn off the girl or get slapped on the face.

Try to imagine this scenario instead: she's asleep, and you want to wake her up slowly and gradually. You're trying to be careful, tender and loving all at the same time. You slowly lower your lips to hers. Touch her lips slowly, guiding her but not rushing her. Once you've established a rhythm, keep it up, but make sure you don't hurry.

Pucker Up!

After you've read these tips, you can now leave your worries to rest and go in for that intimate first kiss you've been waiting for. One last tip: enjoy the moment. After all, you only experience the jitters of a first kiss once. Just close your eyes, savor the moment and pucker up for that sweet first kiss!