To many people, finding the “right” girl is quite easy. The only problem is that in many cases, that person is often not available. For example, you have a huge crush on a girl and she seems to like you too. However, she has a boyfriend. That girl's boyfriend may either be treating her badly or you just think you and that girl would be a better match; however, you don't just have to stand there and wait, for there are some things you can do to get rid of that boyfriend. Of course you just can't go up to that someone's boyfriend and beat the crap out of him. You could get yourself in big trouble, or get beat up yourself if he turns out to be a proficient martial artist. There are a lot of things you can do to let that girl of your dreams (How to know if she is your dream girl, read the Top 10 ways to find the person of your dreams) leave her boyfriend. Here are some creative things you can try: Get Close to the Girl's Boyfriend The saying “Keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer” surely applies here. Carefully plan this. Try to get close to the guy, if you don't already know each other. If he is on the football team, try to make it too. Try to offer some help if possible so that he will be indebted to you. Once you are close enough to that person, here are some things you can do:

Have a boys' night-out – This is very effective, especially when you know that he and that girl have a scheduled date on that day. Bring along his other buddies for added pressure. The more, the merrier. Do this as often as you can. If you think you can bail, get out and try to meet up with the girl. She will surely be pissed and hopefully dump the other guy.

Go to a stripper's bar – and don't forget your camera. Pictures don't lie they say. So take some incriminating pictures, ones that you think will surely infuriate his girlfriend. When you have taken enough evidence, post those pictures on Facebook, MySpace or any social network, or send it to the girl anonymously through email. Stay out of the crossfire. It could get messy.

Introduce him to your hottest female friends – If the guy is a jock, lucky you. His hands will be all over those friends of yours. Of course, you can take pictures too, if you want. If you don't have hot female friends, just introduce a girl that has the biggest crush on that guy. Since you and the guy are “close” friends, that will not be a problem. Adding alcohol into the mix always yields better results.

Get Close to Her Friends If you can't get much close to her, in fear of breaking a jaw, try to get closer to her circle of friends. Hang out with them, run errands, and do them favors. In exchange of the those good deeds, they may put out a good word for you. Once you are a part of her circle of friends, you can move in for the “kill” and do the following:

Ask her out on a “friendly” date – Try asking her out; it can be simple as hanging out in the park, but the point is you have to get a chance to spend a lot of time with her. If she won't budge, then you can ask your friends, who happen to be friends with her. She surely can't resist being left out.

Use her friends as a “shield” - You're lucky if her boyfriend is a jerk that her friends really don't like. If so, you can ask her friends to devise a plan to divert the boyfriend from the girlfriend. Once her friends isolate the guy, then you can make your move to get closer to the girl.

Generate sympathy – If you can't tell the girl of your dreams about what you feel, then tell her friends. This works way better if the boyfriend is an asshole. This way, her friends will make every way possible to break up the relationship in favor of you. To pull this off, you will have to prove yourself first, of course.

The Classic: Character Assassination If either of the two methods above don't apply or work, then you have to go solo and move in for the kill. There are a lot of ways to get rid of the boyfriend while having fun yourself. Just make sure you plan everything right to prevent it from backfiring on you. Here are some ideas:

Tell her he's gay, show some evidence – This one requires a lot of planning. Hire a convincing transvestite and hire that person to hook up with the guy. Pictures are great, but videos are excellent. Sending text messages to the guy using another number saying “You were great baby, I'll suck you next time” and similar messages. Do that often and you know what's going to happen. Just make sure the girl reads those messages.

Spread Rumors – We live in a modern age, so spreading rumors should be done with the help of technology. Aren't online social networks great? (Read 12 snazzy uses for social networking websites) You can easily send messages and everyone part of a group will receive it. Now the idea is to create a fake account, either a hot girl or a gay person and try to make friends with the guy. When he falls for it, leave messages, pictures and all. Or simply post rumors about his size, performance, or some STD he supposedly has.

Dirt Digging - Did he go to juvenile prison or get busted for some criminal offense? Do some research. Find every possible dirty detail you can throw at him to make him look bad and all. It may be low, but it's the truth, after all.

The “Face Him Like a Man” Plan If you think you have the guts to face him like a man, then go ahead, face him head on. However, there are certain conditions that this will have the possibility to work in your favor. First, you must have at least a little sympathy from the girl and her friends and enough dirt to throw at him. To pull this off, your timing must be perfect, such as when the two are in the middle of the fight or the guy is treating her badly. It works great when the girl's friends are in that place, too. All you have to do is walk up to the guy and tell him to stop treating her like that. Of course, be prepared to go home with a black eye and some bruises. Try not to fight back too much if you can help it. The objective is to gain more sympathy. Maybe you can beat him up (if you can) after receiving some damage. If all works well, you might end up with that girl tending to your “battle wounds”. Soon she will realize how much of a loser the guy is and dump him. Happy ending eh?