How to Get Rid of Your Virginity… Gals!
Decisions, decisions…
Let’s see a show of hands. How many are unclear on the mechanics of losing one’s virginity? No one? Okay, we’re all clear on that concept. So what you need to figure out is the where, when, and who, rather than the how. And since you’re here, you probably already have the why.
Where?
We will start with the where. Once upon a time, determining the where was easy: the back seat of a ’55 Chevy.

Rent a motel room? Okay, but be certain to take a video camera along so you can record the sheepish look on your face and your boyfriend’s blushing visage as you attempt to sign in as Mr. and Mrs. Smith and pay cash for the room. An hour in a no-tell motel. How romantic is that?
That’s out, so what does that leave? Splendor in the grass? Two words: fire ants.
Want something different? Here’s 101 Places to Have Sex.
When?
When are you going to do this? We would suggest you wait until you’re at least 18 years old. You will be past the age of consent, and you might actually know what you’re doing. eHow’s guide “How to Know It’s the Right Time to Have Sex,” Lays out a nine-step process for determining just this.
Who?
Now, let’s get to the who. The question comes down to whether, for the occasion of your deflowering, you should select your geeky-but-cute steady beau as the accomplice or somebody who knows more about the art of lovemaking. Be careful and make sure you use a condom.
Are you sure you really want to do this?
Resources:
- Sex Etc. Teenagers talking about sex.
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I’m for having sex before getting married. The way he makes love to
you tells you a lot about how he really feels about you and about his hidden problems and issues.
I told my boyfriend at the time, now fiancee that I wanted to wait until marriage, and he respected my request. At least until I was ready. We waited 4 months and then finally we decided it was time. And now we’re engaged and happy. We’re getting married in a year, so, Girls–Dont sell yourselves short for anyone.
Im a 22 year old guy. Girls wait till marrige, if you dont guys will look at you differently. The man of your dreams will come soon dont be stupid and lose it to anyone just cause hes a guy. Guys are pigs they will do anything for sex (including me) girls are more soft and think deeply. Im just saying if you lose it you will feel guilty for doing it when the guy of your dreams cant forget your first cause ur not his first!.
I have a girlfriend and we had sex the second time we hanged, but for over a year now I always always bug her and fight about her first and second boyfrined she had sex with. She’s in deep deep love with me and I CANT FALL IN LOVE with her, im extremly jealous and cant help it.
If you want a person to fall in love with you, you have to be as good as possible and a being a virgin is a big good thing that I love
Geez!
Do any virgins looking to pop it ever write to this blog?
All I got to say is that u got to try before u buy!!!!! Don’t waint until marriage to have sex becuase then u might be dissapointed.
If u know what u are getting before u marry then u will be better off.
i didn’t wait until i was married before i lost my virginity and i’ve regretted it big time. i see now that it’s something so special and not just something to get out the way. if there are any young ladies reading this please wait. you’re worth the wait!!! if he’s the right one he’ll wait.
hehe.. I DO:P:P:P… hehe.. but hey no goin back!!
Wow it’s really cool to see that i’m not the only one who believes you should wait nowadays. I agree completely with Wrendoggy and I think Kiki should marry me.
For me it’s still the best if you wait for you and the guy to get married before having sex,but nowadays it’s but “usual” or common that alot of people especially teens to be engage in sex.so just an advice,I myslef is not a virgin anymore.but i lost my virginity to the one i really love,and never regret that moment. so be sure you don’t just “DO” it because your into it..you should be sure that you’re doing “it” with the person you love^^
Hi i am 17.. 18 n february..actually.. i do prefer to wait till marrige.. because..the couples will have worked their emotional feelings together.. which makes making love greater and greater when they are married.. plus the first touch.. the first kiss.. the first time.. it is all n the memory.. and being pure..virgin.. actually makes the connection stronger.. and away from sexual deseases..plus.. you actually dont need protection…sex is all about having the altimate statisfaction and love connection.. it is ruined with a condom..
p.s. i want to marry a virgin guy:)