i can’t believe all these girls are being given tips to loose their virginity. i was always wondering the quickest way to lose my virginity as a teen but never found the right bloke. When i was 21 and found the man of my dreams i had hardly any sexual experience atall - i pushed him away for months because i was scared he wouldn’t be interested when he found out how inexperienced i was. I found out four months later when we finally got around to it that it didn’t matter how much experience i had because he was willing to be patient and wait for me to be ready. three years on we are engaged and have a beautiful baby boy! It’s worth waiting for the right person - i speak from experience now!

WOW the womans movement hasnt done anything… look at this blunt line of sexism in this article… compare how to lose your virginity (gal) to the how to lose your virginity (guy)… and u too will see what im talking about

I’m for having sex before getting married. The way he makes love to
you tells you a lot about how he really feels about you and about his hidden problems and issues.

I told my boyfriend at the time, now fiancee that I wanted to wait until marriage, and he respected my request. At least until I was ready. We waited 4 months and then finally we decided it was time. And now we’re engaged and happy. We’re getting married in a year, so, Girls–Dont sell yourselves short for anyone.

Im a 22 year old guy. Girls wait till marrige, if you dont guys will look at you differently. The man of your dreams will come soon dont be stupid and lose it to anyone just cause hes a guy. Guys are pigs they will do anything for sex (including me) girls are more soft and think deeply. Im just saying if you lose it you will feel guilty for doing it when the guy of your dreams cant forget your first cause ur not his first!.
I have a girlfriend and we had sex the second time we hanged, but for over a year now I always always bug her and fight about her first and second boyfrined she had sex with. She’s in deep deep love with me and I CANT FALL IN LOVE with her, im extremly jealous and cant help it.
If you want a person to fall in love with you, you have to be as good as possible and a being a virgin is a big good thing that I love

Geez!
Do any virgins looking to pop it ever write to this blog?

All I got to say is that u got to try before u buy!!!!! Don’t waint until marriage to have sex becuase then u might be dissapointed.
If u know what u are getting before u marry then u will be better off.

i didn’t wait until i was married before i lost my virginity and i’ve regretted it big time. i see now that it’s something so special and not just something to get out the way. if there are any young ladies reading this please wait. you’re worth the wait!!! if he’s the right one he’ll wait.

hehe.. I DO:P:P:P… hehe.. but hey no goin back!!

Wow it’s really cool to see that i’m not the only one who believes you should wait nowadays. I agree completely with Wrendoggy and I think Kiki should marry me.

For me it’s still the best if you wait for you and the guy to get married before having sex,but nowadays it’s but “usual” or common that alot of people especially teens to be engage in sex.so just an advice,I myslef is not a virgin anymore.but i lost my virginity to the one i really love,and never regret that moment. so be sure you don’t just “DO” it because your into it..you should be sure that you’re doing “it” with the person you love^^

Hi i am 17.. 18 n february..actually.. i do prefer to wait till marrige.. because..the couples will have worked their emotional feelings together.. which makes making love greater and greater when they are married.. plus the first touch.. the first kiss.. the first time.. it is all n the memory.. and being pure..virgin.. actually makes the connection stronger.. and away from sexual deseases..plus.. you actually dont need protection…sex is all about having the altimate statisfaction and love connection.. it is ruined with a condom..

p.s. i want to marry a virgin guy:)

I find it hard to believe that any significant number of women have difficulty losing their virginity. They have the lock and every key fits.

im a guy aswell and i have been dateing this girl the last 4 years of my life im only 17 so we started dateing in middle school, and things were slow at first the first year or so and weve broken up several time but pretty muh been dateing her 4 years and we have never had sex, and im completly fine with that dont get me wrong i want it bad but i have never pressured her to do anything she didnt want to do, i think it is better to wait and get to know the person alot and truly love the person before you have sex with them cause i look at some of my friends and alot of them alls they care about is sex and they rnt happy they dont talk much and when they hang out they dont ever just hang out alls they want to do is have sex, and when u look at them u can tell they arent truly happy i also think that love is the best thing you can ever feel to just know that other person will be there with you for you no matter what so i say wait not necessarly till your married but till you find the right girl or guy

I’m a guy and in my relationships I have to say the thing that really attracts me to a girl is if she says she wants to wait for sex. I think it’s great to get to know a girl. If you can maintain a relationship without depending on sex it’s so much better in the end. If you have sex early in the relationship, what more is there to look forward to? That’s not to suggest that after sex everything gets boring, but physically there’s nothing mysterious about the other person any more. There are things you can do to satisfy your carnal needs without “going all the way.”

Making out and holding each other can usually satisfy, as long as you can trust the other person to not let you do something you’re going to regret. Also talking dirty can drive a guy wild. They won’t feel cheated or that they’re missing out if you let them know you want them just as bad as they want you but you really think it’s best to wait.

Hope this helped, I think there are a lot of nice guys but that’s so discouraged any more that they keep quiet or pretend they aren’t nice guys.

The key thing is to be with someone you trust. You need to be assured that they will take things as slow as you need, do things that YOU want to do and doesn’t pressure you into doing things you’re uncomfortable with. I think a year or two is a reasonable amount of time to be dating someone (or at least be really close friends with) before taking this step. It needs to someone who you can tell anything to, so you can say what you enjoy, and not feel ashamed to speak up about something you’re not into. Good sex doesn’t happen without good communication. Go slow!!

Use a condom: lubricated is often preferred, with spermicide gives a little extra protection. Leave some room in the tip. Someone should hold it on the base (the opening) before entry so it stays put during intercourse.

sex is sex!!!if your feelen presured into sex dnt be !!its ur virginity your life if your boyfrend or watevr is pressurn you sit down and discuss this if he still is pressurn ya forgt em!!!if you jst rerli wnt to lose ur v. do it wit sumeone u lov!!!nt jst a fella ya met down n a pub or a party !!cuse ya mite gt aids or sumetng!!!!:L anyway im onlt 14 nd a plain to keep my virginity till im marriead!!!!bt my frend was seein this fella !!now shes nly 14 keep tat n mind!! nd she had sex wit em!!now shes none as a tart etc>> i feel sory 4 er nd shes now my frend bt 14 is WAY 2 YOUNG!!!

“Almost normal”? Would someone like to explain just what *is* normal and why we should even want to be it? Sounds a lot like peer pressure, to be like everyone else and do the “normal” thing.

The obvious benefit to waiting until marriage is you are already in a loving and committed relationship, and you trust your partner. Love, commitment, and trust are essential even if marriage is not because you are opening up to someone in a new way and also making yourself incredibly vulnerable. Find someone who appreciates this!

It’s so much better when you wait unti you get married. It’s so much more special. How cheap would you feel if you gave yourself up to any guy you think you “love” at early points in your life. Sex is something special to share with the man you are going to spend your life with, not some guy you’ve been dating for a few months. DO NOT REGRET IT! Your future husband will thank you for waiting, and you will thank yourself as well.

i think if u love the guy…do it. regardless of the age.. but definetly after 16 yrs of age. i hear a lot of people, even adults that say to not wait til marriage cus it sucks. and its not bad to experience those things in your late teen years. its a part of life nowadays. and its almost normal.