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How to Get Rid of Bad Karma

June 23rd, 2009 by Paul
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bad karmaTo best describe karma, you can refer to the old adage, "what goes around comes around." Any act that you do will come back to either reward you or haunt you, with greater magnitude. So, in the case of bad karma, a bad deed, especially a series, may come as a devastating set of events, which can make your life miserable. Overturn bad karma before it occurs. You should be regretful of your misdeeds, repay the bad deeds with good ones, keep yourself from repeating those actions, and bear a positive approach in life.

I. Be Regretful of Your Misdeeds

regretRegret involves not only feeling bad about what you did, it also pertains to the realization of mistakes as well as the drive to correct them. The emotion helps you formulate an elaborate plan for atonement, provided you're sincere about it. The problem is, pride often gets in the way, hindering a person from accepting his or her mistakes, in an act of self preservation. It even creates excuses for you to justify undeniable misdeeds, which does nothing but worsen your karma even further. So, how can you lower your pride?

  • Reality Check - Defending your faults are pointless, unless you can wholeheartedly justify that you didn't make a mistake. If your conscience is hounding you with guilt, ask yourself why. Lower your personal defenses then extract your reasons for doing your hurtful actions. You will then see if you truly did the right thing or if you are merely covering for your mistakes, to save face.
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  • Reverse the Situation in Your Mind - Man, by nature, is self serving, which we need for our survival. Sometimes that characteristic limits us to seeing only the things from our side of the fence. If you step in the shoes of the other party, who was the subject of the hurtful act, you will understand the situation entirely. Apologizing suddenly becomes an easier task.
  • Be Rational - Excessive pride is a product of emotion. If you let your head rule over your heart, at least for a moment, you can focus on the problem without bias. You will, then, see your every error as well as the other party's. Overturning bad karma is easy once you realize your mistakes and stand by them.

With your pride out of the way, you can apologize for what you did and perform the necessary reactions to counter the stigma of your misdeeds. Your bad karma, as a result, is neutralized, or even influenced in a positive direction.

II. Repay the Bad Deeds with Good Ones

Perhaps the most instrumental step to overturn bad karma is to replace your bad deeds with good ones. The good acts will serve as your bargaining chips to the universe. If you perform them with sincerity, chances are, you will receive good karma for your deeds.

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  • Apology - The very first good deed you must perform is to offer an apology. By doing so, you will open the door for communication, which is instrumental in fixing your relationship with the other party. If the problem is too personal or has a strong stigma, you can apologize through a letter, otherwise you can do it personally. Ideally, you should push through if you're sincere about the whole thing. (Learn how to apologize)
  • Perform the Good Deed - The good deed need not be pricey or extravagant. You only need to ensure that the other party feels good or satisfied after doing it. It may come in the form of a favor, a present, or a random act of kindness, depending on the other party's personality. Communicate with him or her so your act feels sincere. Who knows, you may even develop a good relationship from the act and through open communication.

III. Keep Yourself From Repeating Your Misdeeds

You can avoid your misdeeds by focusing on the consequences of your actions. A bad deed branches out to strings of unfavorable situations. For instance, a simple disagreement can lead to the formation of grudges, which causes destructive acts in the future. Bad karma can be the product of those destructive acts or an entirely different situation that will hit you hard. Whichever the case, make a pledge to yourself not to commit the same mistakes to avoid bad karma.

IV. A Positive Vibe

positive thinkingHaving a positive outlook plays a big role in avoiding and overturning bad karma. If you have a positive vibe, you will see the good in all situations, even if they are seemingly unfavorable. The effects of a positive vibe are quite infectious, so in effect, you are inducing good karma just by staying happy and positive. Many people are convinced with the effects of positivity, some even wrote books about it (The Secret, The Law of Attraction, etc.). Incorporate much positivity in your personal outlook and you will soon realize that life is pleasant, too pleasant for bad karma to interfere.

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  1. Stay positive dont dwell on the past. We alll make mistakes learn from it and move on. First of all learn to forgive and forgive yourself for your bad karma Im not sure if it can be reversed. try to do good for others without expecting anything in return.

  2. I feel we are all human we have freewill and will sometimes make mistakes sometimes bad karma just happens Im not sure you can reverse it. Just try to stay positive and not commit the same mistakes or offend others do little things for others that come out of your heart without expecting anything in return. if a person is dead and you cannot ask for forgiveness just remember they already paid for their sins so you should forgive yourself and forgive them sometimes we can not change the past but we can change our future for the better. we come into this world to learn lessons and what we get out of it is our journey.

  3. @Esther
    You can’t apologize to this person, but you can do good deeds to the other people who are still alive.

    I guess we all do stupid mistakes. The important thing is that you love other people; try to be sympathetic to them instead of having jealous, or bully or hostile thoughts towards them.

  4. May 17th, 2011 at 6:29 pm    Esther Says:

    How can I apologize for my mistakes, when the person died? Will I ever
    be able to regain good Karma?

  5. Well Nigel, you’re a source of goodness and light. Bad karma will come back, but will not haunt you forever. The best and most foolproof thing you can do is send good karma out whenever possible. Try to be a more positive and giving person. Try not to blight your life with negativity. Smile at people, let a person pull out ahead of you, offer to carry someone’s shopping, check in on a neighbor. These are all small things, but they are positive things and you will feel good about yourself as well as doing a service to others. In these times of recession and hardship, we all really do need to pull together to get back on track. Try it, it will work. Good luck.

  6. June 28th, 2009 at 11:22 am    Nigel Says:

    you can never remove bad karma just like that. Once you have done something wrong, you got to return it someday and even if you dont suffer now. You will have to suffer in next life.



 





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