Comments on: How to Get Rid of Friends http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/ Tue, 14 Feb 2012 00:38:30 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Tina http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-57964 Tina Tue, 03 Jan 2012 21:40:06 +0000 http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/#comment-57964 I've been "best friends" with a girl for 4 years now and I really feel like it's time for our friendship to end. i just feel that things between us are not working out, our personalities are very different, we have foughten many times, and she never seems to understand when i can't spend the night at her house. she's so stubborn and always wants things to go her way although she denys it. Even when we're at my house we always do what she wants. and when i do something i want to do when im with her she gets mad and says im rude. she is mean to me and i am sick of it. i do not know how to get rid of her cause she calls me everyday and we don't live that far. another thng though, she's mentally ill, so i feel bad in a way. and her family loves me and i love them but i love them more than i love her. so what to do???!! I’ve been “best friends” with a girl for 4 years now and I really feel like it’s time for our friendship to end. i just feel that things between us are not working out, our personalities are very different, we have foughten many times, and she never seems to understand when i can’t spend the night at her house. she’s so stubborn and always wants things to go her way although she denys it. Even when we’re at my house we always do what she wants. and when i do something i want to do when im with her she gets mad and says im rude. she is mean to me and i am sick of it. i do not know how to get rid of her cause she calls me everyday and we don’t live that far. another thng though, she’s mentally ill, so i feel bad in a way. and her family loves me and i love them but i love them more than i love her. so what to do???!!

]]> By: cassi http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-54892 cassi Sat, 12 Feb 2011 16:00:57 +0000 http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/#comment-54892 Okay, holy crap, there's this girl that I met, and she never leaves me alone and is super clingy and has no respect for personal space, and she freaks me out and punched one of my friends. Now I'm terrified of her and she still won't leave me alone and I see her face in my nightmares, and I'm stuck with her every day at school, and whenever I try to get away from her for my own safety all my teachers yell at me. I can't smile, I can't laugh, because this girl is my nightmare and she's making it feel like it's my fault. And now she's making me something for Valentine's Day. I want to explode her and ship her off to another country and apologize at the same time, but she is ruining my life. I really want to get rid of her but my idiot teachers won't listen to me. She only tells me about all the horrible things in the world and I can't take it anymore, because I have personal space needs and she doesn't respect them and I can't take it anymore. Just had to get that out... 0_0 Advice would be MUCH appreciated... Okay, holy crap, there’s this girl that I met, and she never leaves me alone and is super clingy and has no respect for personal space, and she freaks me out and punched one of my friends. Now I’m terrified of her and she still won’t leave me alone and I see her face in my nightmares, and I’m stuck with her every day at school, and whenever I try to get away from her for my own safety all my teachers yell at me. I can’t smile, I can’t laugh, because this girl is my nightmare and she’s making it feel like it’s my fault. And now she’s making me something for Valentine’s Day. I want to explode her and ship her off to another country and apologize at the same time, but she is ruining my life. I really want to get rid of her but my idiot teachers won’t listen to me. She only tells me about all the horrible things in the world and I can’t take it anymore, because I have personal space needs and she doesn’t respect them and I can’t take it anymore.
Just had to get that out… 0_0
Advice would be MUCH appreciated…

]]> By: Lacey http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-52898 Lacey Sun, 03 Oct 2010 06:19:58 +0000 http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/#comment-52898 I think that you should definitely treat your friendships like a relationship with the opposite sex. You should just "date" first. If you jump into it and hang out with them all the time then it could just be the "honeymoon stage" when you think everything is right and awesome. Give it time. In a few months if those dates don't bother you than u can start calling each other best friends or whatever. I made the mistake of becoming good friends with an employee of mine. At first the confiding in me was okay and now its getting on my nerves. I am her BOSS! It was my fault. I guess I just don't want people to hate me like most people do with their bosses. I need to have that "I don't care" attitude but it truly does bother me when people don't like me cause I consider myself to be really really nice! Anyways, so yeah this friend is awesome totally helped me get back into a relationship with God by just seeing her relationship with God blossom. So she was a great influence in my life for sure! Now...it is just all about HER family, HER boyfriend, HER problems, and HER walk with God. Just until recently she has not even asked if I was having a good day! The only reason she asked me today is because she was treated like I was her boss and not her boss/best friend. Anyways, it sucks so bad. I really don't want her to think I hate her because I don't but dang it...I need GIVE in this relationship too! NOT JUST TAKE TAKE TAKE! I also have looked on the positive side to where I would rather have her concentrate on her education right now than hanging out with her friend. It helps me with my guilt. Anyways, my tip: date! Then see if it can move into "Serious" then if its not working out than nip it in the butt! CONFRONT and be done with it! I think that you should definitely treat your friendships like a relationship with the opposite sex. You should just “date” first. If you jump into it and hang out with them all the time then it could just be the “honeymoon stage” when you think everything is right and awesome. Give it time. In a few months if those dates don’t bother you than u can start calling each other best friends or whatever.
I made the mistake of becoming good friends with an employee of mine. At first the confiding in me was okay and now its getting on my nerves. I am her BOSS! It was my fault. I guess I just don’t want people to hate me like most people do with their bosses. I need to have that “I don’t care” attitude but it truly does bother me when people don’t like me cause I consider myself to be really really nice! Anyways, so yeah this friend is awesome totally helped me get back into a relationship with God by just seeing her relationship with God blossom. So she was a great influence in my life for sure! Now…it is just all about HER family, HER boyfriend, HER problems, and HER walk with God. Just until recently she has not even asked if I was having a good day! The only reason she asked me today is because she was treated like I was her boss and not her boss/best friend. Anyways, it sucks so bad. I really don’t want her to think I hate her because I don’t but dang it…I need GIVE in this relationship too! NOT JUST TAKE TAKE TAKE! I also have looked on the positive side to where I would rather have her concentrate on her education right now than hanging out with her friend. It helps me with my guilt.

Anyways, my tip: date! Then see if it can move into “Serious” then if its not working out than nip it in the butt! CONFRONT and be done with it!

]]> By: /corona http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-52274 /corona Thu, 19 Aug 2010 11:50:35 +0000 http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/#comment-52274 ...all of my...friendships...end up...one way....i usually..have..to do...everything...its painful...really...but....as i draw ...ever..closer...to my graduation...in..2 years....i must....move on....and...erase...everyone...from my mind...i was ..just thier tool...but....if this..is how it has to be with...everyone...then...i would ...rather...not have friends...it would make it..easier to focus...on...other things...i must...attend to... …all of my…friendships…end up…one way….i usually..have..to do…everything…its painful…really…but….as i draw …ever..closer…to my graduation…in..2 years….i must….move on….and…erase…everyone…from my mind…i was ..just thier tool…but….if this..is how it has to be with…everyone…then…i would …rather…not have friends…it would make it..easier to focus…on…other things…i must…attend to…

]]> By: Yvonne http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-52159 Yvonne Wed, 11 Aug 2010 17:22:42 +0000 http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/#comment-52159 I have this weird best friends who's done so many weird things in the one yearwe've been close. Firt she tells me she wants me to die on my birthday, then she says she has powers, then she ignores me when I scored 2% higher on a test when I am meant to be the " stupid" one. She shows off her tests when she gets a D or E and thinks she did the best in the test even after getting her grades back. When pointing out that everyone else scored at least 20% higher than her, her excuse is that she didn't have time to study for the exam which was announced to us onemonth before. She wants to be as famous as Taylor Swift when she doesn't even have any friends other than me and she wants to be a brain surgeon and heart surgeon and any other surgeon available as well as a chemical engineer. I get tired of her dreaming and one day I just stopped talking to her in the summer and never spoke to her in school. Now that sometime realistic and serious has happened to her, I hope she starts to think sense. I am done with her. I have this weird best friends who’s done so many weird things in the one yearwe’ve been close. Firt she tells me she wants me to die on my birthday, then she says she has powers, then she ignores me when I scored 2% higher on a test when I am meant to be the ” stupid” one. She shows off her tests when she gets a D or E and thinks she did the best in the test even after getting her grades back. When pointing out that everyone else scored at least 20% higher than her, her excuse is that she didn’t have time to study for the exam which was announced to us onemonth before. She wants to be as famous as Taylor Swift when she doesn’t even have any friends other than me and she wants to be a brain surgeon and heart surgeon and any other surgeon available as well as a chemical engineer. I get tired of her dreaming and one day I just stopped talking to her in the summer and never spoke to her in school. Now that sometime realistic and serious has happened to her, I hope she starts to think sense. I am done with her.

]]> By: luke http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-47895 luke Sat, 01 Aug 2009 04:53:56 +0000 http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/#comment-47895 omg this kid wont leav me alone. when my girlfriend r tlkin he just comes up and starts actin all retarded and stuff i cnt stand it some1 plz tell me how 2 get rid of him ......... ive tried everything omg this kid wont leav me alone. when my girlfriend r tlkin he just comes up and starts actin all retarded and stuff i cnt stand it some1 plz tell me how 2 get rid of him ……… ive tried everything

]]> By: patrick http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-47164 patrick Sun, 14 Jun 2009 04:09:18 +0000 http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/#comment-47164 I have read a few of these posts, and I thought to myself while reading them, (ya know i've thought the same thing). I've always been a loner with a few close friends. One thing i've never understood is how people can keep up appearances so well, when it comes to hanging out with everyone in the group. i've always sucked at that. i seem to make as few close relationships as possible and stick with it, then after a while i'll fade out, i mean just cut off all communication. its liberating. so i agree with life changing direction, and friends, i mean how many times can you travel down the same damn road? And then a few months later someone calls me up needing help, and I always say 'YES', i dont regret helping out friends in need, its just when all is said and done, they are probably dishing dirt on you with other people, so i just adopted the thought process of, 'Who cares', life is much simpler with that thinking. Now granted some friends are better than others, (do not talk behind ur back), but sometimes i just feel used. I have read a few of these posts, and I thought to myself while reading them, (ya know i’ve thought the same thing). I’ve always been a loner with a few close friends. One thing i’ve never understood is how people can keep up appearances so well, when it comes to hanging out with everyone in the group. i’ve always sucked at that. i seem to make as few close relationships as possible and stick with it, then after a while i’ll fade out, i mean just cut off all communication. its liberating. so i agree with life changing direction, and friends, i mean how many times can you travel down the same damn road? And then a few months later someone calls me up needing help, and I always say ‘YES’, i dont regret helping out friends in need, its just when all is said and done, they are probably dishing dirt on you with other people, so i just adopted the thought process of, ‘Who cares’, life is much simpler with that thinking. Now granted some friends are better than others, (do not talk behind ur back), but sometimes i just feel used.

]]> By: courtney http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-47131 courtney Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:19:49 +0000 http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/#comment-47131 hey i hear u on that i been thru many obstacles i mean alot but i aint mentioning since i aint dwelling on it but lets just say u learn from it and we dont nee people like that i relize my friends r all like that its always been like that but you know what im better off not having any in away cause ik eventually i will find people that actually care about me and appreciate me we are strong human beings dont let anyone treat you like that.I learn to get more respect from people im still working on it to each day.I relize the way i think was because i listened to people all my life so now i relize i need to think for myself and now im doing that so u know people just think postive i wish u the best of luck.Im still figuring out things to day by day and i know i will im still young im 26.I also relize that im amazing im sweet i have a big heart and etc stuff you all mention i never had anyone treat me good or i was by myself mainly but u know what i relize i would be rich lol right now but now ik i hope this helped remember dont be a victim we are strong and deserve the best. hey i hear u on that i been thru many obstacles i mean alot but i aint mentioning since i aint dwelling on it but lets just say u learn from it and we dont nee people like that i relize my friends r all like that its always been like that but you know what im better off not having any in away cause ik eventually i will find people that actually care about me and appreciate me we are strong human beings dont let anyone treat you like that.I learn to get more respect from people im still working on it to each day.I relize the way i think was because i listened to people all my life so now i relize i need to think for myself and now im doing that so u know people just think postive i wish u the best of luck.Im still figuring out things to day by day and i know i will im still young im 26.I also relize that im amazing im sweet i have a big heart and etc stuff you all mention i never had anyone treat me good or i was by myself mainly but u know what i relize i would be rich lol right now but now ik i hope this helped remember dont be a victim we are strong and deserve the best.

]]> By: how do i get people to stop thinking about me when they are mad,depressed or just in general http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-47130 how do i get people to stop thinking about me when they are mad,depressed or just in general Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:10:11 +0000 http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/#comment-47130 Hey my name is courtney i just wish people would stop thinking about me and comming to me with their problems thats the only time they think about me or wanna see me is when they need me to get something from me well enough is enough if i wanted to help someone on my own then thats different i always help people all the time but sometimes you just wake up and relize something needs to change and i want these people out of my life well i mean friend and people that i dont want but they need to stop thinking about me and being negative not healthy Hey my name is courtney i just wish people would stop thinking about me and comming to me with their problems thats the only time they think about me or wanna see me is when they need me to get something from me well enough is enough if i wanted to help someone on my own then thats different i always help people all the time but sometimes you just wake up and relize something needs to change and i want these people out of my life well i mean friend and people that i dont want but they need to stop thinking about me and being negative not healthy

]]> By: Lacey http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-46713 Lacey Sun, 17 May 2009 02:28:56 +0000 http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/people/how-to-get-rid-of-friends/#comment-46713 I have had this guy in my life for a while now, and he is absolutely obnoxious and completely childish. He has liked me for two years, and he thinks we are friends when I don't consider us to be friends in reality. I've been ignoring him, and he kind of got the idea, but not totally. I have my sweet sixteen coming up, and I really don't want to invite him, but he slipped his address in my bag with a note telling me to put him on my guest list! Not only does he have this annoying habbit of rubbing against me (esp. when I am claustrophobic and I don't like when people who I don't trust/like touch me) he also acts completely desperate around me... I need to tell him to get out of my life in a not harsh way, which is pretty much impossible for a person who choses the reality that he wants to accept. I hate being in situations like this one. Any advice/tips? I have had this guy in my life for a while now, and he is absolutely obnoxious and completely childish. He has liked me for two years, and he thinks we are friends when I don’t consider us to be friends in reality. I’ve been ignoring him, and he kind of got the idea, but not totally. I have my sweet sixteen coming up, and I really don’t want to invite him, but he slipped his address in my bag with a note telling me to put him on my guest list! Not only does he have this annoying habbit of rubbing against me (esp. when I am claustrophobic and I don’t like when people who I don’t trust/like touch me) he also acts completely desperate around me… I need to tell him to get out of my life in a not harsh way, which is pretty much impossible for a person who choses the reality that he wants to accept. I hate being in situations like this one. Any advice/tips?

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