i have been with my partner for over 2 years now and from the very start his sister has tried to break us up in anyway possible. we moved to a different state to get away from her constant bitchy attitude and her many failed attempts to break us up - and now from time to time she sends abusive emails and txt messages, she makes up lies that her mum or grandma are in hospital and they want to speak to my partner - but he wants nothing to do with them anymore - he’s told them that but his stupid sister carol doesn’t get it - she still keeps accusing me of taking him away from her and the rest of the family - I wish she’d leave us alone - she’s so evil and heartless, she acts like a jealous ex and it makes me sick. I hope she disappears because we’ve had enough of her BS. I haven’t seen a nice side to any of my partners family - their racist and cruel - his sister is the biggest liar, she tries to compete with me in his life - he has told her to leave us alone and never to call again but she still does. She’s a psycho and in need of mental therapy!!!!!!!!!!!!

My sis-in-law thinks that she is my husbands mother. His real mother has been dead for several years. Also his father is dead also. I can’t stand her nasty,stinking butt. She just irritates me to the fullest. sometimes I want to just sock her in the mouth, but i say to myself why? is she worth it? I try to tell my husband that he needs to tell his family to mind there business. I also tell him that if your family means you no good then why do you pput up with them? All they are doing is bringing you down. she is jealous of what we have. We have a house, 3 cars,money and a good relationship. Andour children are well behaved. I just want to choke her, she calls my house and spmetimes she won’t speak, so i just hang up until she can speak. She is always causing problems. I just want her out of my life and my husbands life.

HMM,WHERE TO START! MY MIL NEVER LIKED ME , SHE AKES THAT SHE DOES IN FRONT OF MY HUSBAND,BUT IN FRONT OF THE KIDS SHE BERATES ME AND COMMENTS ON EVERYTHING I SAY I SERIUOSLY BELEIVE SHE WANTS ME OUT OF THE PICTURE SO THAT SHE CAN PLAY MOMMY TO MY KIDS AND FOR MY HUSBAND. SHE IS A SICK LADY!! SHE NEES TO GET A LIFE, SHE IS A LEACH WHO WILL NOT BUTT THE HELL OUT OF HER KIDS LIVES. MY HUSBAND FEEDS INTO IT CAUSE HE ALWAYS FEELS BAD FOR EVERYONE AND DOESNT SEE THAT I CANT STAND HER AND THAT SHE NEEDS TO GET OUT OF MY DAMN HOUSE!! I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT CANNT LIVE LIKE THIS ANYMORE, I HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT LEAVING BECUASE I HATE HER, SHE DOESN NOTHING BUT SIT ON THE CHAIR AND WATCH TV, USE UP THE ELECTRICITY WITH HER AC AND MAKE MESSES AND USE UP ALL THE FOOD ,THEN TAKES IT TO WORK FOR LUNCH!!! SO BASICLLY I AM FEEDING HER EMPLOYEES.SHE IS FREAKING SICK IN THE HEAD!!!! SHE TALKS ABOUT ME BEHIND MY BACK TO MY SISTER INLAW BUT I CANT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT CAUSE I DONT WANT TO RATT HER OUT FOR TELLING ME PLUS MY HUSBAND THINKS THAT SHE IS A FREAKING SAINT. YEAH A SAINT THAT SMOKES A MILLION CIGGARETES AND DRINKS ALL DAY!!!!!!!!!!!! I NEED HER OUT OF MY HOUSE, OUT OF MY LIFE. I WANNA MOVE FAR FAR AWAY SHE NEEDS A MAN OR SOMETHING, SOME KIND OF LIFE!!!!!!!!!

That’s some messed up stuff that everyone has to go through. I am 21 years old and have lived with my BOYFRIEND not husband for 3 years. About 4 months ago his mother moved in with us. At first it wasnt bad. Now it is MISERABLE. She is the most hypocritical person that I have ever met. Her whole life she has been a neglectful mother, a drug addict and an alcoholic. Then MIRACULOUSLY a year ago god talks to her. Now all she does is go to church. She says she is a devout christian and will never drink or do drugs again. She says she speaks in tongues when she talks to god. I believe she does this to get attention. She traded one addiction for another. When she was a junkie we would get calls at midnight from my boyfriends brother (she has lived with all three of her boys and we are the only ones who will let her live with us now)saying to come over quick because they think she died from drug overdoses. But when she would finally come to she would be crying saying she did it on purpose because her son and his wife went to dinner and didnt invite her. Crap like that. I dont think she believes to believe, I think she does it for attention.
She is also very disgusting. And I mean pig dissgusting. I bake cupcakes and cakes for friends and coworkers. Well, whenever I buy icing she eats it. Right out of the can. With her finger. I went to the store and got Wilton icing (some of the best I have ever tried) and when I went to frost the cake there was 1/3 of the can left with her stubby finger marks in it. I had some icing left in piping bags to use later (properly sealed of coarse) and she had sucked all the icing out of all of them. I even hid my icing in an empty taco bell kit box and she got into it and ate all of that too. WHO THINKS TO LOOK IN A TACO BELL BOX TO FIND ICING?!?!? Then one day I was so fed up with her eating the leftovers that I buried them in the garbage can. When I came home from work I was curious and I looked through the garbage and she had eaten the icing. FROM THE F****** GARBAGE!
She never helps around the house. She puts her dirty dishes in the sink and leaves them there until I breakdown and put them in the diswasher. Whenever I do laundry she will wait for me to start it and when I go into my room she sneaks in there and puts her clothes in so I will unknowingly do her laundry with mine. She leaves her dirty clothes on the bathroom floor. I went in her room one day to throw her dirty clothes on her bed and you could not see her floor it was so gross in there. Im talking about garbage. There were so many mcdonalds and burger king bags in there you couldnt see the floor. GROSS. She is just disgusting all around. Me and my boyfriend havebeen fighting constantly because if I say something or get upset he blows up. I am so in love with him but sometimes I just want to leave him.
She’s only 45 but she looks like shes 60. She has like 4 teeth (because of drug use) She will not eat in front of us. She waits until we go to sleep and then she sneaks in the kitchen and eats all of our food. She picks through our scraps of food leftover from dinner. Our grocery bill has doubled since she has moved in. Our electric bill has doubled. We buy cartons of cigarettes (they are cheaper) and my carton will last me 2-3 weeks and a carton will last a week for my boyfriend. If there are cigarettes in the house she will smoke them and wont pay for her own so I stopped buying cartons of smokes. I wish she would move out but she doesnt have a job because she says shesnot getting one bc she has no teeth and its embarrassing. She has no car either so I have to take her everywhere. If I want to go to the store by myself I have to sneak out. And I mean I cant make a single noise or she will shoot out of her room and say shes going too. She constantly trash talks her other kids and their wives but is a suck up when they are there. Her youngest son recently startedmaking alot of money so she says all kinds of good things about him when he buys her stuff or takes her to dinner but as soon as the effect wears off its back to trash talking. Ive hadenough. Someone should create a place where you could put your mooching inlaws or parents. Oh wait they have. RETIREMENT HOME!!

alright, i thought i had it bad until i read all these stories. I am getting frustrated with my MIL. she comes over everyday because she is bored. she cleans our house non-stop and pays for our dinner. i know i know that doesnt sound all bad.. leave us alone! my wife loves that she comes over. but she brings her dogs with her…i just want some time alone at home.. i consider her company and she doesnt understand that..

hi…well thank god we have some place to put down our frustration into words which we just cant do other wise. well my mother in law and my husbands brother stay wid us since very long. they just wont leave us alone. they never bring groceries in the house and use up everything that i bring and never refill it. they are such assholes…i had it from them. just not in peace. and my mother in law never allows me to watch television. she never helps in the house. she just sits and sits and sleeps and watches tv. its like i suffered a miscarriage in 2006 and its all due to my inlaws. they were just not supportive. and now too they are not leaving us alone. i wish i was dead. my mother in law is the most selfish bitch. wish she was dead tomorrow morning and leaves me and my husband alone. she is after the house my husband bought and she wants all his money that he earns. how can she even do that….god please take her away forever………and my brother in law is just staying free of cost since so many years…he never repairs things and dirties everything…never helps us…just tortures us. what shud i do? i want them to go away and i want to stay alone wid my husband forever…without my inlaws interfereing in our lives.

I’ve been using the cold shoulder/avoidance techniques. My MIL is a disgusting pig! She doesn’t pay for anything (our electric bill has doubled since living with her, she doesn’t feel she should have to pay any portion of the bill, she is a sneak eater, in the middle of the night she goes through the fridge and eats everything!, but doesn’t buy groceries)she doesn’t cook (I don’t want her to, more on that later.) or clean, she doesn’t even wash herself, she picks her nose at the table, then blows her nose and sets her “snot rags” right on the table by everyone’s food/plates/silverware, then leaves them behind when she leaves the table. She recently bought a chihuahua, which she lets crap/pee all over the bedroom floor, the house is beginning to smell like a humane society and it’s all because her room is an absolute pigsty! She NEVER washes her hands, you can actually smell crap when she raises her hands anywhere near ya, she keeps her fingernails really long and you can actually see the funk under her nails almost to the tips, then she sticks her hands in cereal boxes, bags of chips, etc. She coughs and hacks all the time but doesn’t cover her mouth (which is really stomach turning when she opens the fridge for stuff n just coughs all over the food in the fridge) I’ve had to start buying 3-4 days worth of food and hide it in a small refr. on the porch so that the 6 of us who aren’t disgusting hogs can eat.
She is constantly bitching at my kids. She is always trying to put one over on us where money is concerned (not paying for her meds, her drive thru orders, her cigarettes, etc.) The cold shoulder/avoidance techniques are not working because I can still see, hear, and smell her, I’ve tried talking to my husband about it, and I’ve tried tactfully talking to her about the issues, I’m about to the point of just going off on her which will end my marriage, but I’m about to the I just don’t care anymore point, so any suggestions? I’d really appreciate any ideas. Thanks in advance.

My sis-in-law used to live in Miami and said wanting to live in NYC so she found a job there a month ago. Before she drove back up, she just told my wife she needed my help to move her stuffs to her NYC apt. Suddenly, the next day her truck showed up in front of my house. She said she would stay only for couple days but has been living here for weeks then. She has asked my wife if she could stay and live with us for free. My wife said no since we have a upcoming baby and we have been saving hard. Now she said she does not want the job in NYC and she quited her last job. She does not tell us her plan nor when she is going to leave.

She said she needs to save money (by quitting her job and not working???) to pay back her debt that was spent for her few oversea vacations, $800 shoes, $500 Dynson, etc. As I recall just few months ago, she bought her Dynson for her tile floor apt in Mimai.

Since she moved in every time my wife and I talk, she would change the topics to talk about her. When my wife and I talk about pregnancy, she would talk about her accidential pregnancy with her ex-bf. How self center this free loader is! By the way, she left her ex-bf becaus she thinks her ex-bf does not have enough money to support her shopping and to have a maid. She crys for her best friend able to buy a place but she has not. When we visted her down in Miami, we always took her out and even paid for her gocery. When she came visit, she never took us out for dinner. On the other hand, she has all the money to go out with her friend. Oh, she always says me and my wife life is boring, but now she force into our life.

Now everyday she eats our food, goes to gym, and shopping. She does not do any house works and leaves all the dirty dishes in the sink. I told her not to move more stuff into my house hoping one day she will leave. But everyday she sneaks more her stuff into my house. I have to clean everything (including her mess) because my wife is pregnant. Everyday her lazy a** sleeps until who knows… Oh by the way, my brainless mom-in-law was down in Miami when she moved. She might contribute this freeloader idea to my sis-in-law since my selfish sis-in-law never mentioned it when we visited her.

Ok you guys think you have it bad, my MIL is the biggest bitch in the world. She puts me down when no one is around and I mean all the time, insults me directly or indirectly, she ruins or steals my clothes. She loves my son cause he reminds her of my husband but doesn’t care for my daughter all that much cause she looks so much like me. She cries and whines to my husband about little things but she’ll throw comments to me (this is the only one she ever told in front of someone else and this one was the worse) after a big meal…two days before I gave birth to my daughter just because I didn’t get up right away to put the dishes away she says “you’re pregnant…NOT dead” holy f*ck, if only I owned a shot gun!!! Anyway after 7 long years of taking her dirt I let her have it after she risks making me loose my kids’ babysitter, I told her my babysitter didn’t want her there and she kept going over just to annoy me and make me loose her anyway she threatned me in front of my son and just blew right up at me so I told her that she wasn’t welcome at our house anymore and the worse thing is that my husband doesn’t think she “meant” what she said and thinks that I over react and that things will just get better on their own…the woman lives in another province and when she comes up to visit it’s anywhere between 1-3 months…I can’t take it anymore I’m just about to crack!

My in-law is my sister-in-law. I was trying to be nice but not anymore you can only get kicked down so much. Even on our wedding date we almost had to get married without my mother-in-law there as her daughter-in-law was not done her coffee and didn’t feel like getting her to the church on time, she was 1/2 hour late. From there it only got worse, she has accused me of trying to push her down the stairs while she was holding a three month old, call childrens aid on her. She has even called my ex-husband and told him that I should not have custody of my children, he called me and said what kind of family did I marry into.

Now I try not to go anywhere that she will be, because she always causes a scene, most of the time with her husband if he even says hi to me. It makes it hard for family functions, my husband tells me to ignore her as no one from the family likes her they just put up with her for his brothers sake. She buys gifts for only 1 of our three children and she doesn’t see what is wrong with that, as I return the gift to her un-opened. I don’t like my children to go over there and they are only allowed if my husband is there. And our children are now 20 17 and 13 and they just call their cousins to meet them somewhere else.